December 11, 2011 at 6:03pm
Anonymous asked: Thanks for answering my previous Qs Hehehe.. It's him who is afraid that he's less that I've expected. Well, I love him and I think this relationship will work :') The suckest thing is my friends call me weird because I'm in cyber love.
Aww, then tell him that he has nothing to worry about. Don’t mind what your friends (or anyone else, for that matter) have been saying to you. If they’re really your friends, they would be happy if you’re happy and be more supportive.
And no worries, dear. I wish you guys all the best. :)
Anonymous asked: Hi @catwomanizer, I just want to ask you something since (well, I think) we are in the same situation. Is there any chances that you'll change your mind when you meet your currently boyfie in person? Mine is always afraid that I will change my mind about him when we meet in person. -____-"
Hey anon, first off, cheers to cyber love! Hahaha and what did you mean by changing your mind when you finally get to meet him in person? Is it because you’re afraid that he’s less than what you’ve expected?
As for me, if there’s anything I’m afraid of, is that this might not work out for us in the long run. But to answer your question, I don’t think there’s even a slight chance of me changing my mind about him, because there’s sooo much chemistry going on between us every time we text and call each other, every time we go on Skype, etc.
A friend of mine got introduced to her husband by her aunt. She only had his pictures and they only communicated through snail mails and phone calls (not only because she lived in Melbourne while he lived in Vancouver, but also because the internet was not available at that time yet). They did it for three years, until one day he finally came to Melbourne to put a ring on her finger, it was their first meeting, ever. And now they’ve been happily married for more than 18 years and blessed with 2 kids.
I know their story isn’t the rule, it’s an exception. But I hope it gives you as much hope as it does to me. Cheers. :)
December 10, 2011 at 11:00am
Hang in there, okay?
December 9, 2011 at 1:06am
ajummyeon asked: hey @catwomanizer, just read your story in this blog, i'm not against being in relationship with someone who's way older than us, and recently i just told my friends about your story, dengan maksud cuma mau bilang cinta itu tidak mengenal umur, eh malah dibilangin "cewek kayak gitu pasti jablai." Don't you think this kind of mindset is bugging, kenapa harus ada angka maksimal dan minimal dalam cinta? : (
Aww, honey, I don’t quite understand why your friends said that "cewek kayak gitu pasti jablai" (I mean, what does “jarang dibelai” even have anything to do with it?) but their insensitive response is a common reaction to something like this. I’d say it’s because they have no idea what it’s like and how it feels to be in my shoes.
Everyone is different. It’s like wearing a pair of jeans. If skinny jeans look good on you then that’s great, but maybe your friend’s ass would look better in loose fit ones.
I’ve been getting a lot of negative comments about this, some even suggests me to find guys my age. It’s not that I don’t want to, but we just can’t seem to get along well. Most of the people (yes, I’m not talking about guys only) I could relate to are above 35 yo. Don’t ask me why though, it just works for me.
I’ve some friends who are in the same shoes as mine, the only difference is that they’re happily married with their 20+ yo older husbands. In fact, one is going to renew their vows in January (they are 22 years apart, have 4 kids and been married for 13 years)! It’s true that birds of the same feather flock together. ;)
What I’m trying to say is, the only thing that matters is how you feel about it.
October 3, 2011 at 10:02am
Anonymous asked: hei, move on.
Who said I’m not moving on? Just because I keep posting? Thanks, though, I really appreciate the message. :)
September 18, 2011 at 9:25pm
Anonymous asked: How did you meet him for the first time? You are beyond lucky to be his girlfriend. He is one of a kind. ―@angelicalavenia
August 8, 2011 at 9:13am
mrsadl3r-deactivated20131026 asked: Wish I were there to make you feel better, cause hand to God, I'm not good with words when it comes to this.
I love you, girly.
Hey, I just read your message.
Thanks for dropping by, By…
You have zero idea how much this means to me…
And whatever you do, please don’t let him go.